together/alone – Searching for a Soulmate in Summer Prague

spolu/sami (in English: together/alone) was a game about ordinary people in present-day Prague. The larp
was lyric, melancholic, atmospheric, and authentic.  It was about friendship, love, life, and things that really matter.
 The characters were asking themselves “Can we be happy when we find our soulmate?” The game was created through
workshops during one weekend and played on the following weekend.  It used the whole city as a scene – streets, parks,
cafés, and flats. The game had neither a main plot, nor events common for all characters, except for the ending
location. We gave players guidance through the workshops, a theme, structure, and most importantly the feeling of the
game.

There is an English version of the Design Document and a Workshop
manual published with this article. That is everything you need to run the larp and we will be truly pleased if
you use them. And even happier if you let us know about it. Please keep the difference between Czech play culture and
yours in mind and adapt the materials accordingly.

Collective Creation

The decision to create the game through workshops was based on several reasons. Firstly, we wanted players to play the
characters as everyday people in everyday situations. It is easier to do this with close-to-home characters created by
the players themselves to suit them. Secondly, we were aiming at authenticity. We supported players in including their
experiences into their own characters or inspiring other players. Also, as the game mechanics were rather hardcore, it
was important for the players to meet each other before the game. This gave them the opportunity to design the
relationships of  their characters with respect to the other players and their personal sympathy.

It was important to us to ensure that the players would leave the workshops with a clear picture of their characters,
relationships, and plots . Therefore we prepared the Book which contained worksheets for a number of workshop exercises.
 It helped players to note, concretize, and stabilize their ideas. The game on the second weekend was played completely
in-character. No further metagame communication, except of safety techniques, was allowed.

Everyday Play

We believe that the designers should not only give content to the players (it doesn’t matter if they create it directly
or provide tools for its creation), but they should also tell them how to play the game. A few words of instructions are
able to change a larp entirely. Just imagine what would happen with the last game you have played, if the author told
the players before it started “It is a comedy larp. Play it that way.”

We went even further in spolu/sami. We instructed players not only how to play the game but also how to act
within it. We used a concept of everyday play which perfectly suits the vision of this particular larp. We believe that
everyday play brings both esthetical and functional quality. It is challenging for players in all forms: as actors, as
creators, and as spectators. As actors they are asked for subtle, natural, detailed acting (high resolution). Everyday
play leads players to use all existing means of expression. As creators they have to work out how to portray characters
and their stories in hints only. The aim was to avoid literality. The players were continuously deciding what to say and
what should stay untold. The things you don’t say are often more important than what you do say. As spectators they need
to read between lines and to interpret the behavior of other players.

We believe that everyday play looks more authentic and it supports immersion of players. The game itself is set in an
absolutely authentic setting. Almost everything could be (and should be) interpreted within the game. We believe that
the most vulnerable place which may break a player’s immersion is interaction with another player, in this particular
game. And everyday play makes the interface between the game and the reality as seamless as possible.

Of course, there are limitations connected to this approach. The player is able to play only things which he is able to
portray authentically. The player can’t fake a cry –  a fake cry is still a fake cry in the game reality. And we put
further limitations within the game ourselves because of safety (intimacy techniques) or playability (key partner rule).

Freedom

The players alone were responsible for the believability and consistency of the characters. We emphasize the freedom of
creation and possibility to change any aspect of the character anytime. As mentioned above, the players created the
character, its development or meetings with other characters, in workshops. But everything could be changed to better
suit the actual situation within the game. If anything pre-agreed didn’t make sense, the player could simply leave it
out or alternate it.

Everything that the co-players do during the second weekend is interpreted as an action of the character, not the
player. If a player didn’t come to a pre-agreed meeting, the character is blamed, not the player. The co-player may send
them an angry text message or call another character worrying about them. Everything what happened or did not happen
affects the game that follows.

Internal Conflict and Key Partner

It is easy to get lost in such large creative freedom. Therefore, we provided the players with a clear guide and game
development structure. We set the main topic of the game: “Can we be happy when we find our soulmate?” Based on the
topic, each player set an internal conflict of the character, which we called the Problem. The Problem affects the
character in everyday life, no matter if they know about it or not. It was crucial that the conflict was truly internal
and independent of external impulses. We wanted characters to struggle with themselves, not with each other or the game.

The manifestations and changes of the Problem were prepared by the players during the workshop weekend as well. The
changes of the Problem were shown (directly or indirectly) in interaction with the Key Partner.  The rule of the Key
Partner was the only concession we made on players’ freedom. The game was so fluid that we worried about its
playability. We wanted to avoid a situation in which the player is not able to play the game. Or more precisely, a
situation in which there is nobody to play the game with. Therefore, each player chose one Key Partner who had  to
follow their crucial pre-game agreements and meetings. The rule enabled playing the game in rough contours even if
everything else were to go wrong.

Facebook Interlude

The players created a closed Facebook network with their characters and relationships, between the first and the second
weekend.  They  were asked to set up the character’s profile, the character’s key life moments, and write at least one
post every day. They could also comment on the posts of their in-game friends. All Facebook communication was in-game as
well.

Our goal was to bridge the gap between weekends and give the players a reason to think about the character every day. It
worked great. The in-game digital microcosmos was quickly established. It allowed players to internalise who is who, how
they behave, and who knows whom. Facebook was used during the second weekend for in-game communication as well.
Unexpectedly, it also became the most important source of information about the game for us, the organizers.

Intimacy

Intimacy is an inseparable part of the vast majority of romantic relationships. We knew that it would be an important
part of the game. We had done a lot of research about intimacy mechanics before the game. The authenticity of the larp
brought us naturally to the option with minimum simulation techniques. The majority of intimate expressions were used as
they are. A kiss was a kiss and a French kiss was a French kiss. We introduced a technique for simulation of sex which
was a French kiss in a situation where the partners are shirtless (corsets, bras and similar stay on). The players’
safety and comfort was crucial for us. And because  the mechanics were rather hardcore we set several safety rules.

Safety Mechanics

We distinguished four intimacy levels: kiss on the cheek (starting level), kiss on the lips, French kiss and sex. If
players wanted to move up a level, they asked a partner for permission by double-tapping them with a hand. If the
partner agreed, they responded by another double-tap. It was necessary to get this agreement for every increase of
intimacy level, and separately for every intimate contact.

The players registered themselves in groups of four. This rule should ensure that everybody had co-players with whom are
ok to play the mechanics. As the relationships were created in the workshops, the players could easily chose what they
will play with whom. Of course, the players had to discuss their personal intimacy levels and preferences: and they were
able to lower the intimacy mechanics’ levels.

However, it was forbidden to raise the level of intimacy. We have strictly forbidden real sex during the game even
between real off-game partners. The rule should prevent the hypothetical situation when the game partner believes that
manifestations of affection are real and they would want more. The no sex rule is clearly saying that such behavior
cannot be considered as a part of the game (it is out of the magic circle) and it has to be stopped. Last but not least,
the Cut safety rule could be used.

Based on the after-game questionnaire, we can say that the intimacy mechanics worked quite well. A number of players
appreciated the possibility to agree on other than the default mechanics with a specific partner. In several cases
players didn’t need to use any mechanics in the game. At least three players used the sex mechanic as it was designed
and they were happy with it. Several players mentioned that they stopped using the double-tap rule during the game with
a specific partner. But they used it again if they played intimacy with another player.

Acknowledgement

We would like to thank many people. The players, translators, photographers… But also, we want to thank a number of
people who inspire us by their work. Who spent a tremendous number of hours writing articles, editing books and
websites, sharing their thoughts on conferences, and talking in pubs with foreigners. The following ones inspired us
deeply: Dance Macabre (which was inspired by In Fair Verona), On the Road and a great chat with
Kamil Bartzak. Of course, The Workshop Handbook and also Blue-print of Agerlund by Jesper
Heebøll-Christensen, article on High Resolution Larping by
Andie Nordgren and many, many others.

Thank you. It makes sense.

Aftermath

If you are interested in a player’s view on spolu/sami, you can check the review by Jakub Balhar.

We are thrilled that Rolling will use the adapted workshops of the larp for Zusammen/ Sami/ Sudetenland.

spolu/sami (together/alone)

Authors: Kamil Buchtík, Lucka Chlumská
Translation: Zevla Zevlová, Kamil Buchtík and others
Proofreading: Crian Shields
Date: first run June 11-12 and 17-18, 2016
Location: Prague, Czech Republic
Length: 27 hours 1st and 25 hours 2nd weekend
Players: designed for 16 to 36 players, played by 21 players
Budget: CZK 6,300 (EUR 230)
Participation Fee: CZK 300 (EUR 11)
Website: http://spolusami.larpy.cz/

Ludography

Kamil Bartczak and Aleksandra Ososińska, On the Road (Poland: 2015).

Tue Beck Saarie and Jasper Bruun, In Fair Verona (Denmark: 2010).

Mikuláš Bryan, Kateřina Holendová, and Monika Kadaňková, et al., Dance Macabre (Czech Republic: 2012).

David František Wagner, Lucie Chlumská, and Severin Rast, et al., Zusammen/ Sami/ Sudetenland (Czech Republic,
Germany: 2017).

Jesper Heebøll-Christensen, Elisabeth Nørresø Haase, and Sanne Harder, Agerlund (Denmark: 2009).

Peter Schønnemann Andreasen, Kristoffer Thurøe, and Mathias Kromann, et al., Totem (Denmark: 2007).

Cover photo: together/alone (promo photo by Hana Maturová)